a little about me
Hi, my name is Jamie, and I am a professionally trained Coactive men’s coach. I am truly passionate about this work - I believe that through coaching and similar supportive approaches, we can change the world for the better, one person at a time.
I am drawn to doing this work because now, more than ever, I feel we need to be the change, and I have the tools and the passion to really contribute to that.
what my coaching resolves
Working with individuals in the way that I do means transformation. Often clients come to me because they are struggling with something important and fundamental to them. They are very likely aware that they need to instigate change somehow and have no doubt tried many things but haven’t as yet found a solution.
Specifically, when I work with a client, I am helping them find relief from overwhelm, burnout & emotional holding to overcome the sense of feeling stuck and alone the impact of which can be hugely significant both at home and at work.
What do my clients care about?
The men I coach care deeply about family and close friendships, a lot of their energy and time goes into creating time for adventure and pursuing connection with other men because it lights them up! My clients are driven by the desire to have time for fun and enjoy activities with friends and family. This really matters to them and their wellbeing.
What kind of people are they?
The kind of clients who say they love coaching with me are open minded and energetic with a willingness to go deep when the time comes, they have playful personalities and aren’t afraid to try new things; I’d say that’s down to them being creative thinkers and nothing fills me up more than spending my time with these eccentric individuals.
I have a dream for my clients
Of course, coaching is very different from consulting and mentoring; the agenda and goals are set by my clients rather than me giving solutions or trying to fix them. This way, we train our clients to be autonomous and self-empowered and not reliant on others to give them all the answers. This is the magic of coaching. We train our clients to see their own innate abilities and resourcefulness!
And on top of this, I yearn for my clients to live open hearted, conscious lives filled with purpose and authentic connection, where they get to feel truly alive and wake up feeling connected to what really matters because life is finite, and there’s so much on offer.
This matters to me because
In my own life, I have experienced overwhelm and burn out which ultimately lead to depression and anxiety triggering addictions and feeling lost and alone. This taught me that I cant walk this journey alone, I need the support of men in my life and how to ask for help when I need it Subsequently, I believe that men can talk, and when we do it can be life changing!
13 years ago I embarked on a year long program with the Co-Active Training Institute (CTI) The longest established and most respected coach/leadership training school in the world…. they train Leaders and Coaches to become masters in the art of creating change in the world!
This one year changed my life forever!
I discovered that there was an authentic, real version of Jamie inside who was bursting to be set free, and holy shit did he come out with a BANG! I realised I had found my calling… to become a coach and help others like me…
For many years I ignored my calling, to do this work. I stayed safely in my old story and the universe continued to kick my ass until I took the golden thread and followed it right to this point here writing this!
And this is MY calling…
I am a coach because I love co-creating change in peoples lives! I love the dancing in the moment of coaching, the absolute free abandonment of dreaming in whatever we want to happen and then actually creating it… actually making it happen… if we just decide to show up and step fully into the arena, literally anything is possible!
I believe we all have a version of an Old Story
…that is not serving us any longer, and we all have the opportunity to write a new one! This work creates such a powerful and safe place to allow you FULL permission to dream in and create the new story that will shape the way you live you life in multi-colours!
My style of coaching
…is real, I hold you my client fully resourceful and whole in the knowing that you are on your journey to towards the life you want… I will challenge you, hold you accountable and stretch you beyond your comfort zone… AND we will have fun! This is a multicoloured process, and we will go deep… and discover what really lights you up? As a coach, I am gentle yet powerful, warm, open hearted, intuitive, authentic and reassuring, most of all light and humorous, who wants a bossy coach right?
Dan - “I started coaching feeling gloomy, lost, itching to do the thing i’d been putting off… and before I knew it I was totally animated and feeling anything is possible! Thanks Jamie”
I am committed to you
…connecting to your truth and purpose, and when the sea gets choppy and you drop your compass, I will hold you steady and be there in service of you creating more than you thought were possible.
You have the answers locked inside of you and together we will fulfil your longing for a new way of being in the world, your New Story
If you would like to find out more, let’s have a chat?
